Sunday, September 26, 2010

想送臭斗去这样的幼儿园

刚刚听说Reggio Emilia理念的幼儿园,很想到加州后送臭斗去,斗娘上网赶紧google附近有没有可能去的,结果很令人失望,加州只有这几家:

Sydney Gurewitz Clemens
73 Arbor St., San Francisco, CA 94131
(415) 586-7338, fax (978) 389-0448
e-mail: eceteacher@earthlink.net

Carole Kent
Napa Valley College, Child & Family Studies
Napa, CA 94558
(707) 253-3248
e-mail: wombat@napanet.net

Susan Lyon
Mills College, Innovative Teacher Project
5000 MacArthur Blvd., Oakland, CA 94613-1301
(510) 430-3105, voice (510) 430-2019, fax (510)430-3233
e-mail: slyon@mills.edu

Mary Hartzell Rota
First Presbyterian Nursery School
1220 Second St., Santa Monica, CA 90401
(310) 451-9259, fax (310) 656-3319
e-mail: maryhart@earthlink.net

Alise Shafer
Evergreen Community School
2800 Colorado Ave., Santa Monica, CA 90404
(310) 453-6255
e-mail: alishafer@earthlink.net

Eva Sundqvist-Olmos
5334 Highgrove St., Torrance, CA 90505
(310) 375-2338

离可能的居住地都不近,唉,看来臭斗没福气了。斗娘自己学学Reggio Emilia理念吧。

一篇比较有价值的关于宝宝湿疹的文章

1.1婴儿湿疹是什么?
婴儿湿疹俗称“胎毒”或“奶癣”,是发生于哺乳期婴儿头面部的一种急性或亚急性皮肤炎症性病变。本病好发于2~3个月婴儿的面颊、眉间、额部及头皮。严重时可累及躯干和四肢。初起为对称分布之红斑,红斑表面逐渐出现丘疹、丘疱疹。由于搔抓、摩擦、表皮破损, 出现渗液糜烂。干涸后形成结痂。自觉瘙痒。如有继发感染,可见脓疱或脓痂,可有局部淋巴结肿大及发热等全身症状。病因可能是过敏体质引起,尚不明朗。

1.2婴儿湿疹需不需要治疗?
有些人认为婴儿湿疹会随着年龄增长自愈的,因此不需要治疗,这种想法对于湿疹不太严重的患儿(如就脸蛋上发了一些红色丘疹并且没有继续发展的趋势)可能适用,但对于全身性的或表皮破损甚至出现渗液糜烂的患儿一定要到正规的医院进行治疗,切不可听信什么用母乳擦拭在湿疹上或用一般治疗“癣”的药膏随意的涂在患处。
王爱民等[1]调查表明,瘙痒及搔抓、情绪改变及晚上入睡困难是影响患儿生活质量最主要的3个方面,而这3个方面有可能形成恶性循环,相互影响,患儿的生活质量将会进一步下降。所以,认为加大对婴儿湿疹防治的卫生资源投入;对患儿进行积极有效的药物治疗,尽快控制病情;以避免使患儿病情加重和复发是很有必要的。

2婴儿湿疹病因的探究

2.1婴儿湿疹发病率
婴儿湿疹是婴儿期常见的变态反应性皮肤病,有关该病的发病率报道不多,且各地调查结果差别较大:王林迎等[2]报告2000年4~8月间沂蒙山区1岁内婴儿湿疹患病率26.69%,主要集中在6个月以内;男女发生率间无显著差异;农村患病率显著高于城镇,城镇与农村的中、重度湿疹患病率间均无显著差异;人工喂养组湿疹患病率显著高于母乳喂养组及混合喂养组,伴发系统疾病的患儿湿疹患病率为35.20% ,与正常婴儿湿疹患病率(22%)相比较有显著差异;其中中、重度湿疹患儿中,有过敏性疾病家庭史29例(18.59%),因用药不当致皮损加重76例(占48.41% )。因此认为,提倡纯母乳喂养,加强婴儿卫生保健,对患儿及时正确地治疗,同时积极治疗全身性疾病是预防和减少发病的关键。
宋红潮等[3]统计广西地区发病率为13.3% ,男女发病率基本相同,以小婴儿多发,在生后3个月内发病者占89.25% ,其中75.27%首发于42天内,而> 6个月至1岁发病者仅为3.76% 。该病症状多较轻,皮疹分布以颜面部为主,常见红斑丘疹型。83.34% 的患儿病程在6个月内,表明婴儿湿疹多数在婴儿期痊愈;仅1.61% 延续达1年以上。

2.2婴儿湿疹与家族过敏史的关系
宋红潮等[3]研究发现父母有过敏史的婴儿患湿疹是无过敏史的8~10倍,母亲的影响比父亲稍大,有122例患儿单亲或双亲有各种过敏史,占65.59% ,遗传过敏素质是婴儿湿疹的主要发病因素,但仍有34.41%患儿父母无过敏史。
俞雪梅等[4]研究发现过敏家族史阳性的婴儿,湿疹和荨麻疹的发生率与家族史阴性的婴儿相比无差异性,说明过敏家族史与婴儿湿疹和荨麻疹的发生无关。但当过敏家族史分为父亲过敏史、母亲过敏史、双亲过敏史三组来分析时,对婴儿过敏类型的影响三组间有显著性差异。母亲有过敏史的、发生过敏的21例婴儿中,95.2%(20/21)是湿疹;而父亲有过敏史的、发生过敏的19例婴儿中,仅有52.6%(10/19),两者有显著性差异。两组荨麻疹的发生率则相反,分别为9.5%(2/21)、52.6%(10/19),两者间有显著性差异。因此,母亲有过敏史的婴儿,以发生婴儿湿疹为主;父亲有过敏史的婴儿,以发生食物、药物或不明原因引起的荨麻疹为主;而双亲均有过敏史的婴儿,以发生反复喘息为主。因此看来,说患湿疹的孩子容易得哮喘的说法并不十分准确,但家族过敏史对婴儿的影响的确很大,对于有高危因素的婴儿给予早期干预措施,对预防婴儿过敏性疾病的发生有一定的作用。

2.3婴儿湿疹合并症
有极个别的婴儿湿疹会合并其他皮疹,当湿疹严重时一定要去比较权威的医院进行诊断,以防止延误病情,有报道婴儿湿疹合并马拉色菌感染[5];婴儿湿疹合并Kaposi水痘样疹[6];另外,发湿疹较重时不得注射预苗,特别如白百破等,有报道其可能致使婴儿湿疹合并大疱性类天疱疮[7]。

3治疗婴儿湿疹的药物

文献中报道药物林林总总,以中药为多。但是,其他地区我不太清楚,就上海,各大3级甲等看小孩毛病的医院,一般开出治疗婴儿湿疹的药,大多都是含皮质类固醇激素药。我想医生总有他的道理,或许是中药的效果没有报道中那么有效;或许是小计量的激素不足以对婴幼儿造成伤害,因为据我了解,得婴儿湿疹的人很多,而很严重得不太多。而绝大多数情况下,很多不太严重的宝宝一涂就好,不会用很多;而一旦湿疹严重了,又不得不用激素。也许,这就是各大儿科医院都用激素的道理吧。

3.1皮质类固醇激素(一般药品名中含“××松”的就是激素)
文献上报道比较多的药物有:艾格松[8]--上海先灵葆雅制药有限公司生产,为新型不含氟的皮质炎固醇激素制剂(含0.1%糠酸莫米松)。派瑞松霜[9]--西安杨森制药有限公司生产。有效成分为硝酸益康唑(抗生素)和曲安奈德(中强效皮质类固醇激素)尤卓尔[10-11]--由天津药业有限公司生产。为不含卤素的皮质类固醇激素外用制剂(含丁酸氢化可的松)。维肤膏[12]--维肤膏主要成份为维生素 ,蜂王浆和醋酸氟轻松(有些文章写肤轻松)。
即使是激素药物,各种激素的强度,药物的作用效果也有差别,刘立红等[13]指出1997年Greaves提出了“软性”激素的概念即具有强效激素的疗效却没有全身不良反应的风险。原理是皮质类固醇外用后在局部被酯酶迅速代谢为无活性的降解产物,因而吸收后不良反应轻微,减少了对HPA轴的抑制和局部不良反应。艾洛松为目前国内仅有的皮肤外用“软性”激素。易敏等[14]调查发现尤卓尔中所含的丁酸氢化可的松是以氢化可的松为母体,通过在l7位进行酯化,来增加其抗炎活性和治疗作用,其结构中未引人卤素,所以其安全性远远高于其他中、高效皮质类固醇药物。且对小儿湿疹有较好的疗效,总有效率达75% ,经检验与艾洛松对照组有效率81.58%差异无显著意义。派瑞松霜[15]的有效成分为硝酸益康唑和曲安奈德,前者除具有广谱抗真菌作用外,对革兰氏阳性菌亦有较好的抑菌作用,后者是一种中强效皮质类固醇激素,具有抗炎、抗过敏作用。标麟等[16]比较派瑞松与艾洛松治疗皮炎湿疹时,发现两者起效均较快,在疗程为1周时.两药的总有效率相似:然而,在治疗第2周、第3周后派瑞松的总有效率均高于艾洛松,是否与派瑞松具有抗感染作用有关,有待研究。维肤膏中所含肤轻松属于非常强的皮质类固醇激素,血管收缩指数相对较高,不适于面部[17]。综上所述,基于有效性及安全性考虑,艾洛松及尤卓尔较适合用于婴儿湿疹的治疗。

3.2非甾体类外用药
甾体类药物是目前皮肤病治疗最常用,也是最有效的药物,但长期应用会造成许多不良反应,且停用极易反弹。因此不良反应少的非皮质类固醇类消炎药的应用是皮肤病治疗的一个新途径[18]。
布特[19]--.由同联集团沈阳抗生素厂生产(含5%氟芬那酸丁酯软膏是非甾体类外用药)。氟芬那酸丁酯软膏是一种非甾体类皮肤外用药物,作用机制是阻断花生四烯酸生成炎性递质前列腺素及白三烯等,抑制上述炎症递质所致的炎症、瘙痒、疼痛等症状,从而达到抗炎作用。经皮肤给药时,有效药物主要分布于浅表皮肤,其对肉芽组织增生和皮肤创伤愈合无明显影响,作用特点不同于甾体炎抗炎药。方芳[20]研究选用尤卓尔作为对照组,该药是目前临床上婴幼儿应用最广泛的中效皮质类固醇外用药物,由于其不含卤素,副作用小,多用于治疗婴儿湿疹、皮炎等。经临床观察,布特在治疗婴儿湿疹的临床疗效方面与尤卓尔相似,有效率接近,但布特由于其作用机理独特,在使用过程中不会出现糖皮质激素外用药物的常见不良反应(如萎缩等),可以弥补激素药膏的不足。

3.3中成药
儿肤康搽剂[21-23] --是目前有文献报道唯一的中成药洗剂。儿肤康搽剂是成都森科制药有限公司生产的,由芦荟、苦参、当归、皂荚、白藓皮、苍耳子、黄柏、地肤子、石菖蒲等11味中草药制成的纯中药儿童外用制剂,方中芦荟、当归护肤润肤,苦参、白藓皮、苍耳子、黄柏、地肤子清热燥湿、祛风止痒;白芷祛除风湿;艾叶外治皮肤瘙痒;苦参、苍耳子、石菖蒲、皂荚解毒杀虫;全方在润肤、护肤的基础上发挥清热燥湿、祛风止痒、解毒杀虫的作用,尤其适合儿童娇嫩的皮肤。

秦社灵等[21]应用儿肤康搽剂(成都森科制药有限公司)与炉甘石洗剂对照观察,结果治疗组与对照组总有效率分别为92.30%、 93.33%;痊愈率分别为61.54%、40.00%。经统计学处理,总有效率相比无显著性差异;但痊愈率相比两者间具有显著性差异。说明儿肤康搽剂治疗婴期湿疹具有良好效果。钱向明等[23]又将其与地塞米松软膏对照观察,治疗组150例加用儿肤康擦剂局部外用。对照组60例加用地塞米松软膏局部外用,均治疗5天。结果:治疗组的痊愈、显效率为72.0% ,对照组为66.7% ,组间比较,无显著性差异;半年后随访,治疗组的复发率为7.4%,对照组为22.5%,组间比较,有显著性差异,即治疗组复发率明显低于对照组。得到的结论是,儿肤康搽剂治疗婴儿湿疹疗效确切,避免了应用糖皮质激素软膏所致的不良反应和停药后出现的反跳现象,无明显副反应,且因其既可外搽、湿敷又可外洗沐。

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斗娘又发现一新的中药洗剂,很想给两个孩子试试。老大估计试起来很难,这家伙现在什么也不让抹,老二应该没问题,还没到可以反抗的时候,可是问题是上哪里去买呢?查了很多,似乎不是随便一个药店可以买到的。爷爷奶奶靠不住,斗娘根本不做指望,就算买到也舍不得邮给孩子用。外婆刚回国,自己还有一大堆检查要做,也不好再让她到处奔波去找这个药。唉,继续找,找到了只好托斗娘的朋友帮忙了。

再付使用方法:
外用儿肤康溶液。方法:用儿肤康搽剂纯药液适量直接涂搽患处并保留药液。患部面 积较大时可用儿肤康原液涂抹全身或取儿肤康溶液50ml稀释50~100倍全身清洗。丘疹性荨麻疹和急性湿疹患者用浓度为30%的药液涂抹患处。渗出明显时用3%浓度儿肤康液湿敷,每天1次,每次半小时。

Friday, September 24, 2010

all we need is sleep

斗外婆刚走,斗娘斗爹还能应付,但是已经明显感到力不从心,睡意无穷了。尤其是斗娘,早晨倒到床上,任臭斗在床上翻来覆去,嘻嘻哈哈,还是睡得醒不过来。晚上斗娘跟斗爹说自己来哄睡,结果是斗娘自己睡着了,臭斗还没睡,等一个盹后,斗爹过来,斗娘醒了,斗爹说,“刚才你睡得呼哧呼哧的,臭斗在一边抓得嘎吱嘎吱的。”。斗娘汗。。。。。。

是啊,斗爹斗娘缺觉缺得厉害,自臭斗出生后就没睡过一次整觉,斗娘曾跟斗爹说,现在就是让她住宾馆,估计也不会睡觉,顶多眯上两个钟头就会突然醒过来。斗爹说,以后等孩子病好了,我们都需要重新学习睡眠。“以后等孩子病好了”,要等到多久以后啊!

臭斗也需要睡眠,自从他出生,唯一的一次饱睡就是他一岁回美后,口服激素药第五天的晚上。那时湿疹全面褪去,肠胃毛病也仿佛一下全好了,臭斗就像一个正常孩子一样,斗娘那时才真正体会到带一个健康正常的孩子原来可以这么享受。经过那不可思议的一晚上,一切都像梦一样远去了。随着激素药量下降,湿疹卷土重来,肠胃依然糟糕,臭斗重又生活在水深火热中。每日呵欠连天,常常精神不振,他需要睡眠,比任何一个孩子都需要睡眠。

Kyle,自出生后只有两天睡过一觉五小时,然后情况也是越来越糟糕,白天就像老虎打盹,不是屁就是嗝搅合得他也是不得安生。小孩如此,大人就更别提了,你得照顾他啊。半夜不时起来抱着拍,白天到处端着走,放下来没几分钟又得再次抱起,接着拍。一个晚上就在拍拍睡睡,帮他抓抓中过去了,挺到早上发觉两耳生疼,头昏脑胀。Kyle两眼肿肿,没精打采,唉,本来以为这个老二可以天使一点,谁知道这些病会让他们都变成恶魔。

明月千里寄相思

斗外婆要回国了,带着疲倦的身体,无比牵挂的心。

全家都去送行。通往机场的路走过不止一次,唯独这次感觉如此沉重。

check in,行李检查,过海关。看着斗外婆瘦瘦小小,微驼的背影,挤在人高马大的一群外国人中间,孤单可怜,背着个跟自己身高不合的背包,愈发显得矮小瘦弱。斗娘的心啊,眼泪不禁流下来。直到今日,斗娘方读懂朱自清的《背影》。斗外婆再回头,招手让我们回去,她眼圈红红的,看了我们一眼就不忍再看,斗娘知道,再看一眼只怕眼泪就止不住了。斗娘想起上回的分别,斗外婆哭得很伤心,斗娘开始责怪自己,当时为什么不跟臭斗一起去送呢?

斗外婆随着安检的人群往里慢慢走,不时招手让我们回。臭斗也追着他外婆沿着分隔线跑了起来,斗娘跟在后面追。臭斗一脸严肃,他也有不舍吧。虽然孩子的依恋来得快,去得也快,但是我想在那一瞬,他的心也是触动了。回家后,斗娘问臭斗,外婆喜不喜欢他,臭斗说,外婆喜欢弟弟。斗娘难过,小孩子不明事理啊。因为斗外婆整天带乐乐,把斗娘省下来,让给臭斗,可是这种表象竟然让臭斗理解为外婆喜欢弟弟多过他。斗娘解释了几遍,也不知道臭斗到底明不明白,唉,也许一觉后,臭斗就渐渐相不起他外婆了,抑或他觉得外婆不过是他生命中的过客,跟他有亲情,但却不是重要的,至少跟他爸爸妈妈比起来,要降一个等级。

回去的路堵车,乐乐时不时需要停车拍嗝,最后只好放弃高速,选择开local,直到乐乐睡了才又开上高速,这一路竟然花了快五个小时。月亮印在车窗前方,又大又亮,斗娘突然想起,只怕已是中秋了。想到斗外婆不能留下团聚,中秋的日子却在车水马龙间,又是一阵怅然。这回去也不是舒心的日子,还有大堆检查等着做,忐忑不安地期待结果。

希望斗外婆一切安好,好好养养身体,啥时也能享享他两个外孙的福啊!

夜色茫茫
罩四周
天边新月如钩
回忆往事
恍如梦
重寻梦境
何处求
人隔千里路悠悠
未曾遥问
心已愁
请明月
代问候
思念的人儿泪常流

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

车迷

臭斗不知道从何时起对车子产生了难以割舍的爱,玩具只爱车,看出只看车,走一路认一路车牌,甚至连类比都是车。

在动物园,看见美洲大野牛,斗娘问:“你知道牛尾巴为什么摆来摆去?”。臭斗压根没理会斗娘,直接说:“牛尾巴摆来摆去像wipes。”。斗娘傻了。

早晨,阳光折射在屋角,呈很长的L形,臭斗一睁眼,就说:“你看那太阳照的L,那不就是lexus嘛。“。斗爹斗娘倒。

Monday, September 20, 2010

Kyle是这样叫妈的

乐乐同学突然在四个月大的某一天开始瘪嘴叫“妈”了。每次都是不舒服或者饿了或者要抱的时候开始瘪瘪嘴,然后“妈,妈,妈”地叫个不停,那可怜样啊,由不得斗娘不丢下臭斗前来安慰乐乐。

斗外婆说,“这家伙前几天开始认妈,然后马上就开叫,真牛啊!”。

斗娘说,“都说老二精嘛,看我平时都没抱他,人家也要讨妈妈怜惜嘛。”。说这话时,斗娘心里酸酸的,别是一番滋味在心头啊。不是我不要抱你,是我根本找不出时间抱你,谁让你有个这么难带的哥哥呢!

Kyle去做四个半月检查,医生测试来测试去,把他弄烦了,开始瘪嘴叫妈妈,医生说,“他叫妈叫得可真早啊!”。

没法子,没娘疼的孩子哦。

Sunday, September 19, 2010

cyclic vomiting syndrome

臭斗最近情况异常糟糕,弄得斗娘也跟着他三天两头歇斯底里,痛哭流涕,真不知道这孩子啥时才能好。

问题是,他每次哭闹到底是因为不舒服还是就是要闹,还是因为困,还是因为什么其它原因,斗娘一直搞不清楚。问他他也说不清楚,只能让人更恼火。

有时候这种痛苦真的是让斗娘难以忍受,一个好好的孩子,行为完全异常,可能间或一两天,看上去像个正常的孩子,然后就会发生很多出人意料的状况,不知道他什么时候会歇斯底里,不知道是过敏让他歇斯底里,还是其它原因。他正常起来,可以很开心的玩,但是常常很忧郁,闷闷不乐,好像玩什么都没兴趣,玩什么都让他很不爽。斗娘一度怀疑这孩子精神有问题。然后就反思给他吃的药,给他吃的东西,没错,所有一切外来的都可能造成他不正常的行为,尤其是歇斯底里。

其实斗娘也发现,他要是因为发脾气而闹得歇斯底里的情况还真是不算多,那这些天的歇斯底里可能最跟究底都是因为他不舒服,但是这个不舒服是因何而起,又该如何缓解呢?最近臭斗食欲相当差,奶不吃,甚至每次饭前吵着要吃辅食的他,怎么喊都喊不动,他就是不想吃。常常吞咽口水,斗娘估计是返上来了。可怜他说不清啊!斗娘甚至怀疑,这孩子从小到大都处在不舒服的状态,也许他已经习惯反酸,习惯肚子不舒服,习惯睡不好,所以你问他哪里不舒服,他也说不清楚,斗娘又急又痛,控制不好自己情绪,常常会发疯打臭斗,可是打在儿身上,疼在娘心里。这种痛苦也不是一两句可以说清楚的。

今天臭斗又歇斯底里了一次,哭得吐得到处都是,斗娘恨啊,哭了很久很久。可是哭有什么用,哭救不了自己的儿子,医生也靠不住,只能又上网查信息。发现这种病cyclic vomiting syndrome,斗娘开始记臭斗疾病日记,希望能找出他的病因,可能是做父母的常常被一些东西忽略了,那么就记录吧,数据最能说明问题。

臭斗是踩着斗娘的血和泪长起来的,代价沉重,作为一个母亲,斗娘却不得不承受。

Thursday, September 16, 2010

今天突然想到的-长期服用ZYRTEC的副作用

臭斗一直以来都靠ZYRTEC控制过敏,斗娘一度以为只要是医生开的,应该问题不大,所以在吃抗过敏药上跟斗爹分歧并不大,但是自从某日臭斗开始拒绝吃ZYRTEC,斗娘就开始怀疑这个药是不是有问题。

当然是药三分毒,我们要权衡厉害,然后再决定是吃还是不吃。以前臭斗小,我们让吃他就吃,一边吃还一边跟他说吃了就不痒了,吃了就会舒服了。在我们这样反复强调下,臭斗曾经一度将吃ZYRTEC当作生活中一个常规的步骤,我们也不曾怀疑,甚至有点相信医生的话,要用这些药物把他的IgE给打下去,于是,就这样吃着。但是情况并没有好转,臭斗依然睡不好,吃不好,甚至玩不好。直到有一天他很抗拒,很坚决地对斗娘说,“我不要再吃这个药!”。甚至以大哭大闹来抵抗。斗娘开始认为是孩子不可理喻,经过臭斗多次拒绝,斗娘开始怀疑了。为什么在臭斗情绪好的时候给他吃他都不肯吃,为什么每天给他吃益生菌,他就从来没有反抗过,总是老老实实就吃了?斗娘用相同的容器给他喂药,ZYRTEC的味道也很不错,为什么臭斗就是这么抗拒?臭斗是个很敏感的孩子,而且很聪明,他可能说不清楚为什么,但是他绝对是感受到了什么不一样,什么让他不舒服的地方,而且经过一段时间的尝试,他认定是ZYRTEC惹的货,所以他不吃。臭斗也会有阵发性情绪恶劣,悲伤,胆小,容易发脾气。每次他这样,斗爹斗娘都认为是过敏了,然后就灌ZYRTEC,却从来没有怀疑,也许就是ZYRTEC惹的祸。

今天斗娘google了,结果如下:

Long-Term Side Effects of Zyrtec

Zyrtec is one of the most common allergy medications on the market and has been proven to be an effective drug. However, like most other medications, taking Zyrtec long term does increase the risk of serious side-effects which can become long-term health issues of not treated quickly.

Insomnia

One of the most common long-term side effects of Zyrtec use is the inability to have a good night's sleep. While this usually wears off in time, some have had to enter into treatment programs to resolve their insomnia issues.

Swelling

Some people experience swelling which can last for several days. While it is most often confined to the fingers or hands, occasionally the tongue or throat will swell and make breathing difficult. This is not a common side effect.

Mood Changes

While not as severe as mood swings, sudden changes in one's mood have been reported days, even weeks after Zyrtec use has stopped. It is rare, but quite serious.

Irregular Heartbeat

Irregular heartbeats, no matter the cause, are serious and can lead to cardiac arrest or other heart problems. This is another side effect of Zyrtec that is well documented.

Fatigue

While it is not uncommon to be fatigued while taking a particular medication, once you stop taking this medication, you should begin to feel more energetic. However, in the case of Zyrtec these effects can last for several days (up to a week) after you stop taking the drug.


Read more: Long-Term Side Effects of Zyrtec | eHow.com http://www.ehow.com/facts_5022249_longterm-side-effects-zyrtec.html#ixzz0zin4rahn

然后访问了一个论坛,看见了这些服用Zyrtec后的孩子的不良反应,转几则如下:

WE gave Zyrtec to our 3 1/2 year-old daughter at her pediatrician's recommendation as she was continuing to have allergy symptoms on Claritin and frequent ear infections. She had an immediate personality change. Moody, defiant, temper tantrums, uncontrollable rages, sleep disturbances, wanted to be held and rocked constantly, wouldn't/couldn't play. Over a few weeks the symptoms improved somewhat, until we missed one morning dose and we were right back to square one with the significant behavior issues. She also has lost two pounds this month due to lack of appetite. We were trying to keep her on it until the fall allergies abated, but this cannot go on any longer. We have put her back on Claritin and will give her benadryl at night if needed to control the symptoms. After two days we are starting to see our sweet angel again. The change in personality in this child was beyond belief, down-right scary.
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My 7 yr old child who makes good grades and has never once been in trouble for anything at school was suspended with a behavior problem. It was totally out of character and the teachers and principal could not believe it. He became an anry, irritable, destructive child with strange and irrational behavior. We made an appointment with a psyc doc. It was not until several days later I realized the only change was that I had started giving him allergy medicine. Who whould have thought allergy medicine could do this. He stopped taking it and is completely normal without behavior issues. Could not believe it.
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My daughter has been taking Zyrtec for almost 2 years. The past year and half have been horrible. She is 6 years old and will throw fits and scream and cry like a baby. She has a hard time concentrating and in kindergarten last year, her teacher was worried she may have autism. We have been to a neurologist over her headaches. I had no idea about all of this and am so thankful for this website. Me and my neighbor were talking the other day and she had said that she had given her daughter zyrtec one time and it totally changed her and it made me think. So my daughter hasn't had any zyrtec in 5 days and yesterday her teacher called me to tell what a good day she had in school. I was amazed. I thought I would look up side effects of zyrtec today and it feels like I wrote a lot of these posts b/c my daughter has such similar issues. No more zyrtec for any of my kids!!
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My two year old son, who has always been sweet, loving and agreeable started taking Zyrtec for seasonal allergies and his entire mood, demeanor and attitude completely changed. He started acting like a different child. He became angry, violent, didn't want to eat, irritable, weepy and clingy. He would wake up screaming NO at night, when he never had sleeping issues before. He would smash his head on things, hit himself, pull out his hair and crush food and throw it everywhere when he was frustrated, sad or scared. The only thing we can attribute these changes to is the Zyrtec. All these symptoms started when he started the medicine. I have stopped giving it to him after reading this website because I now know I am not crazy! Thank you for posting this information so parents like me are more informed about what their child is really getting. I am disgusted that these possible side effects are not disclosed in the packaging!!!!!!!!!
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My 8 year old daughter is, by nature, a little scattered and high mental energy. She was put on zyrtec by her allergist, in combination with allergy shots. We stopped the zyrtec last week when the discount mega-bottle we'd bought a few months ago ran out. Well, suddenly, we had our daughter back. She had become obnoxiously rude, unable to focus or sit still for any real amount of time, had difficulties getting to sleep, had frequent temper tantrums, argued incessantly, and generally became nearly intolerable to be around--honestly, I had thought about getting her a psych evaluation and entering into family therapy. Last night, 4 days without zyrtec, I found her quietly engaged in an art project, listening to music. We had spent the first non-aggressive, non-shouting, non-totally hyper weekend we've had in months. I am SO GLAD we stopped this horrible drug. Please, if you suspect your child's behavior has changed, take them off the zyrtec. It isn't worth it. Severe allergies are truly m
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I gave this to my 7 year old daughter instead of Claritin and we couldn't figure out why all of a sudden she would cry at the drop of a hat, act VERY angry and say "she just wishes she were happier" After stopping this a week later we noticed drastic improvement and she was back to herself.
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My daughter,2, started taking the target brand and every day, all day was a fight and tantrum. She started banging her head HARD. She also stopped eating which I thought the tantrums were coming from.I had forgot to give her her med. and I noticed the tantrums stopped, her behavior returned to normal, and she stopped banging her head. Its like night and day.I wouldn't recommend this for any child. Especially if you as a parent don't want to jump off a cliff!
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My 9 yr old son was prescribed Zyrtec by his pediatrician. We noticed an immediate change in his attitude, behavior and grades. He was a very happy, motivated, straight A student. His personality completely changed. We thought his mood and behavior problems were just caused by his age and a new friend. We had no clue about the side effects of this drug until he stopped taking it just to see if his allergies were gone. After stoping the drug. It took about 10 days for the panic attacks to start(multiple times a day). He would just cry and shake and say his head felt funny. After taking him to his doctor, getting lab work done, EEG, EKG, referal to a pediatric psychologist I was told about the effects of this drug in children. I can't believe doctors are not talking to their patients about these severe side effects!!! Take your child off of this drug immediatly!!!!!!!
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My 4 yr old experienced severe depression (as I call it considering she is 4). She withdrew from her favorite activities, like singing and dancing, stopped eating her favorite foods, would constantly say she felt like crying or she was sad. Did not want to go to school, would wake up ALL night long with nightmares, said her sheets were bumpy, it was crazy and my family was going crazy. She was extremely clingy and weepy, she also would have outbursts of crying or whining for no apparent reason. Took her off the zyrtec and within two weeks, I had my joyful, loving, playful, full of life daughter back.
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My 4 year old son has minor alleriges so we decided to try children's Zyrtec. At first it worked to clear up his allergy symptoms that led to sinus infections, but after a while my husband and I noticed some negative side effects. My sewwt, lovable son became a nightmare. He was moody, wouldn't eat and very irritable. We had to stop for a while because of the recall and he was his normal self again. We started thinking it was because of the Zyrtec but dismissed it until he started on it again. He has been irritable again he didn't eat his lunch or dinner. We are DONE!
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My son committed suicide because of this drug. He was 18 years old with seasonal allergies. He had tried Clariton before but didn't work too well. Heard about Zyrtec and decided to try it. Was on it for two months then committed suicide. We found out he had been depressed,became withdrawn, hearing voices, not sleeping well. Never took anything else, never had any problems mentally before. Was a straight A student, happy, had everything going for him. The only thing different in his life was taking the Zyrtec. I attribute Zyrtec to his suicide! Especially after reading all the negative comments from everyone else.
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my daughter is 4 and she has been taking zyrtec for about 1 year for allergies, I recently noticed that whenever she would have a "meltdown" it was after getting zyrtec. I began to watch more closely and definitely pinpointed it to the zyrtec. She goes into almost a complete rage and becomes a totally different person. I was referring to it as a pyschotic episode-only way I could explain. Im so glad I found this website because I definitely know its the zyrtec now. It is going in the garbage and I will call her doctor tomorrow and explain and see what else we can try. I just feel bad it took me so long to realize what was causing these episodes.

太多了,不一一列举,反正现在斗娘是心里发怵,唯一想大吼的是:

谁来救救这些过敏的孩子呢?

Sunday, September 12, 2010

选号码

斗爹说google voice值得一试,又讲出如何如何的省钱大计,忽悠斗娘赶紧去申请个号,不然好号都让人抢光了。

要申请就申请湾区的号,bayarea地区都是硅公硅婆,对这玩意自然敏感得狠,果然不出斗娘所料,好号早就被申请光了,只能矮子里头拔高子。懒号一大堆,还真是不好找,

斗娘问斗爹:“你给选个先。”。

斗爹说:“4948怎么样?”。

斗娘说:“不错啊,很好记。”。

半分钟后,斗娘大叫:“不行!4948,死就死吧!”。

斗爹笑,重新选,选来选去,都可以跟什么死不死的联系起来,斗娘突然觉悟,好号早就让人挑完了,凡是有四的一概不要!这下反而好选了,反正也没什么特殊要求,梳子少,好记就行了。

斗娘突然想起什么来,问斗爹:“您老在人家一推出时就申了,想必是个绝妙好号吧。”。

斗爹得意地答:“9548,咋样?”。

斗娘倒。。。。

就我死吧!

Kyle认生了?

Kyle不舒服起来,还会咬他外婆,上手狠劲抓,但是斗娘接过手,他最多就是使劲蹭,使劲蹬,什么咬啊,抓啊的动作都没有。都外婆说,认生了,认生了。可是Kyle是斗外婆一手抱大,斗娘几乎跟他交流都很少,自打断奶后一天跟他乐呵都不到二十分钟,要说认生,也不会不认斗外婆啊?

昨晚斗爹斗娘出门给国内朋友买东西,回来后斗外婆说Kyle闹得歇斯底里,哭得一塌糊涂,怎么哄都哄不好。Kyle母乳时,傍晚是比较好搞的,只要让他吃饱,稍微折腾一下就睡了。上neocate后反而变得很fussy,搞很久都搞不好,好容易睡了,没一会就醒了。这次闹的斗娘很愧疚,再也不干傍晚出门了。

斗爹说,Kyle知道怕了,斗娘说,四个月的孩子,知道“怕”个屁!臭斗一岁半前不还号称刘大胆嘛,一岁半后才怕这怕那,整个就一胆小如鼠。斗娘就觉得Kyle是不舒服,身上湿疹发得一塌糊涂,激素药从来没停过,还是发,只好上更强的,更强的用了,下去了,过不了几天又发出来,而这期间稍弱的激素药也没减,真不知道这样用下去会不会给孩子造成永久伤害。斗外婆说kyle每天眼睛都是肿的,是啊,谁知道是不是激素用的对他的肾已经造成损伤了呢?想到国内有女婴用强激素压湿疹,弄到最后来月经,斗娘就发怵,不会用到我们Kyle长黑毛吧?nnd,Kyle啥时能重见天日啊!

我们不是在医院,就是在去医院的路上

Kyle的情况逐渐恶化,一家人为了两个孩子忙得焦头烂额,appointment一堆一堆,老大的,老二的,急疹的,专科的。有时因为出门前,孩子不舒服,闹得凶,等孩子平复了再出门,匆匆赶到医院,人家说句,“对不起你们迟到超过二十分钟了,约下次吧。”。于是这趟白跑,又等着下次。

斗娘接到朋友的电话,问:“怎么几天都不见你带臭斗出门玩啊?”。

斗娘答:“我们不是在医院,就是在去医院的路上。”。

臭斗当年被误诊,拖延,给了斗爹斗娘惨痛的教训。这次,当然不希望杯具在Kyle身上重演,于是约各科医生也约得特别起劲,可惜的是,你最可能见到的还是儿医,最难见到的是专科医生。而Kyle的情况是,最需要见到的是专科医生,最没用的就是儿医。

上周又紧急去见了儿医,因为Kyle一直拉稀。按照吃neocate的孩子的正常表现,不便秘就算好的了,根本不可能出现拉稀,然而Kyle就是拉,还拉水样大便。几天中有一两次正常,其它时间都在拉不正常大便。好容易见上儿医,他们首先不知道吃neocate的孩子正常大便的情况是什么样子,其次不知道美国市场上,基于氨基酸的奶粉一共只有三种。这个儿医是住院医生,然后叫来了superviser。斗娘本以为这个人懂板,哪里想到,人家一张口就说:“喝neocate,一天拉四次正常。”。斗娘差点没晕倒。

然后,她给Kyle又做了检查,斗娘跟斗爹正在跟住院医生讨论,没在意接受检查的Kyle。两分钟后,Kyle大哭不止,怎么哄都不行,从出生到现在他很少这样,斗娘也吓坏了,不知道怎么搞的。直到该superviser离开,Kyle的哭声嘎然而止。斗娘跟斗爹都觉得莫名其妙。斗爹说,“Kyle是不是认人了?开始害怕。”。斗娘反驳,“刚才护士,包括那个大胡子医生检查,Kyle又合作,又笑,一点没见他怕谁啊。”。

Monday, September 6, 2010

Kyle翻身

接近四个月的时候,Kyle可以自己翻身了,一切都发生在不知不觉中,斗娘每次看见Kyle伸着笨拙的大腿,压向另一侧身体,然后挺挺屁股,咕隆一下,这个肉球就滚过来了。

Kyle不舒服的时候不愿意仰卧,他会拼命翻身,可是一旦翻过来,发现不舒服还是不舒服,他就会叽歪,大哭大叫。估计是很生气,为什么我翻过来了还不舒服呢?现在又没本事翻回去,只好用哭闹来发泄一下了。不过Kyle到现在抬头都还抬不好,真不知道他就是抬不好还是不愿意抬。

现在Kyle刚满四个月,始终被屎嗝屁跟湿疹折磨,虽说已经全neocate一个月了,情况似乎没有任何好转,估计斗爹心里也不好受,毕竟当初要求断奶最激烈的是他。可是情况并不按照本该预期的那样发展,所谓事事难料啊!

兄弟之争

臭斗一直不愿意跟弟弟分享玩具,只要Kyle拿了玩具,他就要抢回来,不管自己玩不玩。斗娘教育无数次,收效甚微,也懒得管,想着反正小的还小,他还太会玩呢。

从上周开始,情形就变了。Kyle会捍卫自己的权利了。斗外婆亲眼目睹了一场兄弟大战。Kyle手里攥着玩具,是斗娘专门买给他的,臭斗看见了,非要去撩他,就开始抢。谁知道Kyle死死拉着就是不给,臭斗也没料到自己的弟弟突然倔强了,抢得不顺心顺意,又被斗外婆看见,制止了,没得逞,郁闷了。

Kyle现在总是要玩具,看见臭斗在玩,死死盯着,头都不肯转。玩具要是被臭斗抢走了,就大哭表示抗议,而且有自己喜好,要是被臭斗夺走正玩得高兴的东西,如果还回来的不是这个东西,也不肯善罢甘休。斗娘就说,老二也不是个省油的灯,我以后都可以遇见兄弟俩在家战火纷飞的场景。

Kyle现在被外婆宠着,每天要抱出门放风,不出门就不干。还要外婆端着他,让他目无阻碍地东张西望,俨然一副地主老财的样子。有时斗娘看见外婆端着kyle满屋子巡视,Kyle流着哈喇子,笑咪咪的,瞅瞅这个,看看那个,玩腻了就叫嚣着要出门,斗娘真想重重地打他屁股。一个大肉球,老让人这么端着,累都累死了。

Terrible Two or Horrible Three?

臭斗这段时间的改变让斗娘欢喜让斗娘忧。

欢喜的是,这孩子已经能大段大段说话,基本无障碍地表达自己的意思,有时俨然一个小大人的模样。担忧的是,逆反心理很强,怎么都要跟你拧着来,常常把斗娘气到吐血。

斗娘知道这个年龄段的孩子自我意识增强,什么都有自己的主意,有时甚至他的主意就是怎么跟你对着干。

斗娘跟臭斗说,不要去吵弟弟,于是每次Kyle睡着后,除非臭斗睡了,不然他肯定想方设法要去撩他弟弟。

斗娘跟臭斗说,饿了赶紧吃奶,臭斗就宁可喝水,也不要奶,往往饿到受不了,然后开始抓狂发疯。

斗娘跟臭斗说,天气凉了,在屋里不要光脚,穿拖鞋或袜子,自己选。臭斗就是要光脚,不但光脚满屋子跑,还转喜欢到厨房冰凉的瓷砖上腻歪。刚刚给穿上的袜子,一转身就被他脱了扔在一边。

斗娘跟臭斗说,气温已经很低了,不要开空调了。臭斗就是要开,为开不开空调闹得歇斯底里。

斗娘跟臭斗说,要pee了,提前说。如果还不能保证自己可以每次都提前知道,那大人提醒你去pee的时候,一定要去pee。臭斗就是不理你,提醒他去,不去。然后若无其事地尿得满地都是,俨然活回到一岁半。

斗娘跟臭斗说,看书了,早点睡觉身体好。臭斗就一个劲地不肯上床,不看书,不睡觉。还大叫,我就是要睁眼睛,其实眼睛都快睁不开了。于是,折腾许久,最后体力不支,倒头就睡。

斗娘跟臭斗说,痒的地方擦点药膏,这里有不含激素的中药水,止痒效果好。臭斗就是不要擦,不但不要中药水,最后什么都不要。

斗娘跟臭斗说,不要在商场的衣服堆里乱窜,很容易过敏。臭斗偏要在衣服堆里挤进挤出,最后过敏,又呜丫乱叫。

斗娘跟臭斗说,不要玩小鸡鸡,裸奔很羞羞。臭斗偏要玩,斗爹屡教不改,最后一巴掌扇过去,臭斗半边脸就肿了,斗娘心疼死了。

斗娘跟臭斗说,痒了我帮你抓。臭斗不干,这是我的手,这是我的腿,这是我的,我的,你不能帮我抓。

斗娘跟臭斗说,吃完奶要刷牙。臭斗自己不刷也不让斗娘刷,威逼利诱也不起作用,常常气得斗娘怒从心头起。

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太多太多这样的场景,每天都在重复,虽细小,但实在是考验人的忍耐力,你可以好脾气一日,一月,两月,可对于连基本睡眠都不能保证的斗爹斗娘,天天神情恍惚,精神本已被受折磨,只怕再好的脾气人也会抓狂。

宝宝痛痒灵不灵了

Kyle自用了宝宝痛痒灵后,湿疹恶化,才停激素药两天就流水了。斗娘只好狠心上强激素,斗爹则认为斗娘已开始就应该用强激素,认为Kyle湿疹总不见好转就是因为激素药不够。斗娘觉得即使这次强激素压下去,它始终还是会发起来。

果然,强激素就是立竿见影。胳膊上用了三天就好了,腿上连用四天也没没问题了,但是胳膊上用激素那块颜色果然变白了。斗娘看看压得差不多就转臭斗用的激素,激素含量高于2.5%的可的松,一周后湿疹又再次恶化,复上强激素。斗娘不解,为什么压下去又没有过敏源刺激,怎么还会发出来?斗爹说那是因为其它地方还没有完全压下去。斗娘纳闷,感情这湿疹还能传染啊?

Kyle现在还是每日激素,斗娘真怕他以后长黑毛,变成激素依赖性皮炎,但是又找不到很好的办法,难啊难啊难!